The Family
Introduction:
The family is the most basic of
all social institutions-- It is generally defined as in our text "...a set
of people related by blood, marriage, or (some other agreed-upon relationship)
[kinship], or adoption who share the primary responsibility for reproduction
and for caring for members of society..." (p. 361)
The functions of all other institutions-- politics, religion, economy,
education, were once contained within the family-- (Return to Lenski's model of societal evolution, for example)
Family is a universal institution-- although the form it takes varies
widely from one society to another.
- The Hopi Indians
of North America
- The Nayar (south west coast of India)
Even within society, e.g. the United
States today, there is a tremendous
variation in family types:
Look at U.S.
households, for example--
- Today, about 26
percent of all U.S.
households are comprised of married couples and their children.
- About 29 percent
are comprised of married couples without children living at home.
- Single parent
households nationwide, in 1990, comprised about 10 percent of all
households.
- Single adult households
comprise about 24 percent of all households.
- About 11 percent
of all households fall into some "other" category, e.g.
related or unrelated individuals living together.
Research (1977) by Kellam, Ensminger,
and Turner studied first-graders and their families in a poor, predominantly
black neighborhood in Chicago.
Amazing diversity was found in the 1,391 families examined. Altogether,
there were 76 different types of families in this one neighborhood:
- 35 percent had
mothers and fathers present
- 37 percent had
mother present only
- 28 percent some
other form
Basic functions of the family:
The family,
the most basic of all social institutions, is found in all
societies, although its structure varies widely. Regardless, the family
fills the same basic functions from one culture to the next.
Reproduction-- (Replenish members of society).
Protection-- (Remember the characteristics of humans? One is an
extremely long period of dependency-- children need protection. The family also
serves to protect adults).
Socialization-- (The family is a
"primary group" and the major source of early socialization of children).
Regulation of sexual behavior-- (The
state regulates marriage through licenses, and many states still have
"anti-fornication laws" making it illegal to have sex outside of
marriage).
Affection and Companionship--
(Meeting the emotional needs of family members...)
Social Status (social
placement)-- (The family provides social status-- children are
already assigned a position in the stratification system by virtue of the
families they are born into).
Terminology:
Families are described according
to type (composition of a "family unit");
mate selection process; kinds of marriage; residence patterns; tracing
descent; and power structure.
Family Types:
- Nuclear:
(married couple and their unmarried children living together)
- Extended:
(nuclear family plus other relatives living together, i.e. grandparents,
etc.)
- Stem extended:
Three or more generation of the same family share the same household and
economic resources-- (Grandparent; Parent; Children)
- Joint extended:
Two or more nuclear families usually headed by brothers sharing same
household and economic resources.
Mate
Selection:
- Endogamy:
(marry someone within your own racial, ethnic, religious, group, tribe,
etc.) The practice of functions to reinforce group solidarity,
cohesiveness, and survival -- (Today, many religions
are very concerned about their children marrying outside the
faith).
- Exogamy:
(marry someone outside your group-- the "Incest Taboo.")
- Homogamy:
(marry someone with the same social characteristics, (age, social class,
education)
- Hypergamy:
(marry outside your social class-- "marrying up" for example)
Marriage Types:
- Monogamy:
(one man married to one woman at one time)--
most of the people in the world live in monogamous relationships.
- Serial
Monogamy: (a man or woman may have several spouses over their
lifetimes, but only one at a time)
- Polygamy:
(any form of plural marriage)-- most of the world's societies are
polygamous-- Murdock's analysis revealed that more than 80 percent of
the 565 societies he examined had some form of polygamy.
- Polygyny--
most common form of polygamy-- one husband several wives at the same
time. (75 percent of Murdock's societies were polygynous.
- Polyandry-- very
rare-- one wife several husbands at the same time. Usually happens
where females are scarce; women still hold lower societal power than
men.
- Group Marriage--
extremely rare-- several men married to several women at same time.
Residence
patterns (after marriage):
- Neolocal--
newlyweds set up residence away from their parents.
- Patrilocal--
newlyweds set up residence with or near the husband's parents.
- Matrilocal--
newlyweds set up residence with or near wife's parents.
Tracing descent:
- Bilateral--
ancestry is traced through mother's lines and father's lines equally; no
one side is considered more important.
- Patrilineal--
tracing descent and inheritance through father's relatives who are
considered important.
- Matrilineal--
tracing descent and inheritance through mother's relatives who are
considered important.
Power in the family:
- Patriarchy--
women have very little power, male head of family dominates in all
decision-making
- Matriarchy--
(very rare) women in the family have power
- Egalitarian--
power is shared between husband and wife. (Usually, spouses have their
own areas of expertise where they exercise power and control. It is rare
that all decisions are shared equally).
What is happening to the family in the U.S. today?
Interest groups, politicians, and
the media have all address concern over the "declining family" in
American society. As evidence of this decline, they cite the
following:
- Increased
divorce statistics
- (50 percent of
all marriages formed today will end in divorce is the present trend continues)
- (an increase in
the national divorce rate of 40 percent between 1970 and 1990)
- a divorce rate
of around 40 per 1000 married women 15-44 years old
- BUT WHEN
EXAMINING "MARITAL BREAKAGE RATES" --MARRIAGES BROKEN
BY THE DEATH OF A SPOUSE AND DIVORCE-- WE FIND THAT AS MANY MARRIAGES
WERE BROKEN IN THE EARLY 1900'S AS ARE BEING BROKEN TODAY. IN 1900 THE
PROBABILITY THAT YOUR MARRIAGE WOULD BE BROKEN BY THE TIME YOU REACHED
40 WAS 67%-- MORE RECENTLY, IN 1976, IT WAS 60%. TODAY, WOMEN (AND
CHILDREN) SUFFER DISPROPORTIONATELY IN ECONOMIC TERMS, FROM DIVORCE,
BUT RECENT LITERATURE INDICATES THAT THEY TEND TO RECOVER (FALUDI). NO
DOUBT THE INCREASED LABOR FORCE PARTICIPATION OF WOMEN HAS MADE THEM
LESS DEPENDENT ON MEN AND ENABLED THEM TO GET OUT OF ABUSIVE
MARRIAGES.
- A 30 percent
decline in the marriage rate between 1970 and 1990.
- BUT
THERE IS STILL DEBATE WHETHER PEOPLE ARE POSTPONING MARRIAGE OR
FOREGOING IT ENTIRELY-- U.S.
CENSUS PROJECTIONS INDICATE THAT 90 PERCENT OF ALL ADULTS IN THIS
COUNTRY WILL MARRY AT LEAST ONCE BEFORE THEY DIE. (THIS REPRESENTS A
DROP OF 5 PERCENTAGE POINTS FROM PROJECTIONS MADE FROM 1970S DATA.
- A dramatic
increase in births to unwed mothers-- 25 percent in 1990. This has
been linked to high levels of sexual permissiveness and experimentation.
- [THERE DOESN'T
SEEM TO BE A PARALLEL TO THE RAPID INCREASE IN OUT-OF-WEDLOCK BIRTHS IN
THIS COUNTRY'S PAST]. HOWEVER, IN THE PAST TEENAGE PREGNANCY RATES WERE
HIGH-- THE DIFFERENCE WAS THAT THE WOMAN USUALLY GOT MARRIED BEFORE THE
CHILD WAS BORN.
- A significant
increase in the number of cases of family violence-- Some studies
suggest that on the average, there is more violence inside the family
than out on the streets.
- THERE IS GREAT
DEBATE OVER WHETHER OR NOT THERE HAS BEEN A DRAMATIC INCREASE IN FAMILY
ABUSE IN RECENT DECADES OR WHETHER THE INCREASE IS DUE TO INCREASED
AWARENESS, REPORTING, AND MORE STRINGENT DEFINITIONS OF WHAT
CONSTITUTES ABUSE.
How basic demographic trends affect
family structure:
Begin with the reduction in
mortality and increase in life expectancy-- In the U.S.
the death rate has declined from 40 per thousand population
in 1700 to 9 per thousand in 1990. Life expectancy has increased from 45 years
in 1900 to 75.4 years in 1990. Infant mortality rates have also been reduced
dramatically from 26 per thousand live births in 1960 to 10 per thousand live
births in 1990.
- What has this
meant for the family? (Peter Uhlenberg,
"Death and the Family")
- Increased
survival prospects for infants has encouraged emotional
bonds between parents and children.
- Decreasing
deaths from ages 20 to 50 has reduced the proportion of children
experiencing orphanhood.
- Decreasing
mortality has reduced experiencing a member of the nuclear family
dying.
- Increases life
expectancy has meant that more children get to know their grand
parents.
- Decreasing
mortality has increased the number of years that marriages last before
death-- (indirectly leading to an increase in divorce).
- Decreased infant
and child mortality has lead to family planning and reduced family
size.
- Increased life
expectancy has lengthened the "empty nest stage of the
family."
- Decreased
mortality has increased the number of elderly people dependent upon the
younger population.