But...
But our culture dictates use of the title "doctor"...
150 years ago our culture dictated the use, by some, of the title "Massah" and all that
implied. If you were magically transported to the past would you willingly accept that
title?
So what should I call you?
Do you ask that question whenever you meet a new person? You must be quite a drag in
cocktail parties! Don't you just muddle through to a solution without thinking about it
too much?
But that's different. Those are just people. A professor has
power over students.
I do not accept your offer of power! That is precisely the mentality that titles
perpetuate. It must be broken if a person can be said to have gained a liberal arts
education.
But I've been taught to show respect to people. "Doctor" is
a term of respect.
I've no objection to showing respect, so long as it is shown to all. If we all agree to
go by the title "doctor", that's fine with me. But if not, how is it respectful to call a
person a name that makes his job more difficult and that he finds odious? Isn't respect
ultimately the process of looking outwards towards the person you're addressing rather
than inward to your own comfort?